Thursday, September 25, 2014

49 Days for Grandpa Ham Huynh


Ham Huynh
8 November 1921 – 8 August 2014
Fujian, China | Tay Ninh, Vietnam | Edmonton, Alberta, Canada

His Family
8 Children (4 sons | 4 daughters)
Yen Huynh | Long Lu | Tu Anh Huynh | Phuong Lu | Denny Hwang | Michael Hwang | Thanh Huynh | My Huynh
6 Children-in-Law
13 Grandchildren (8 grandsons | 5 granddaughters)
4 Grandchildren-in-Law
3 Great Grandchildren (2 great granddaughters | 1 great grandson)

Day 1 - Aug 8
8 | 8 - My grandfather loved the number 8, as with all Chinese person, how befitting for his last
Day to fall on 8 | 8. How lucky for my mother to be able to be there for him in his final hour too!

Day 2 - Aug 9
My grandfather honours tradition, but he's quite a modern man, who adapts to the changes in his life quite wholeheartedly. I remembered him getting CD player before his kids even got one for themselves and was one of the first get a cell phone among him and his kids. I remembered one of the cousins getting him a Whitney Houston CD.

Day 3 - Aug 10
The love of family! Grandfather loved his family, especially the kids because he's always a kid a heart and proves it to us time and time again. No one loves a party more than my grandfather, especially when he can get the family all together to celebrate with him.

Day 4 - Aug 11
My grandfather left China in his early teens, losing track of his family. Many years later, after arriving in Canada, my grandfather managed to track his family back to China in the Fujian province. There he found his mother...still alive and health. He was able to visit her numerous times and bringing along with him as many of his children as possible to meet their grandmother. Great grandmother passed away at the age of over 100 years...I think 103?

Day 5 - Aug 12
Food! He loves food. I inherited the love of food from my mom, who inherited it from him. The family took him out every
Day during those last days to go out to eat. He has to satisfy his food cravings! I remembered him surprising me one summer, taking me to the mall and ordering a "Donair - no onions" in ENGLISH!

Day 6 - Aug 13
Food...while my grandfather was living in Vancouver for a short time, remembered him waking up my brother and I so we can take a quick walk to Chinatown to "yum cha" with all the other grandpas bright and early! We loved our steamed BBQ pork buns, even half asleep!

Day 7 - Aug 14
Travelling...my mother is so like my grandfather...can't sit still...has to be doing something or going somewhere to do something. I think that's why the family got him a cell phone...so they can find him when he sneaks out of the house to catch the bus to various parts of Edmonton…I swear he has multiple bus scheduled memorized!!!

Day 8 - Aug 15
It was only in the last few years that my grandfather stopped gallivanting around the world. He loves to travel...you guessed it...to eat food from all around the world...he especially loves eating all the variety of food available in Asia!

Day 9 - Aug 16
Grandfather Ham Huynh loves children...he loved his children...loved his grandchildren...and loved his great grandchildren. I am so blessed that he was able to meet Logan, his first great grandson, numerous times! I remembered a trip we took to Whistler where he demanded to stay around the bunny hill to watch the little kids learn to ski...always expressing "oh how very cute they are"

Day 10 - Aug 17
Grandpa Ham Huynh loves to be cool...and he definitely loved Vince H's cars and motorcycle! When given a choice, he'll ride in Vince's sweet rides!

Day 11 - Aug 18
Grandpa Ham Huynh loved to celebrate in style...so he went shopping as soon as he arrived in Vancouver for his Chinese Jacket for my Chinese Engagement! He looked smashing!!!

Day 12 - Aug 19
Grandpa Ham Huynh loved to get dressed up and have cool clothes. I remember for a while, he would only wear Timberland branded clothes...lol...and of course he loved his Hawaiian shirt!

Day 13 - Aug 20
Grampa Ham Huynh loved to get hugs...and he giggles when we rub his Buddha belly...

Day 14 - Aug 21
Grandpa Ham Huynh loves to get mail especially getting registered mail where he has to sign on the electronic pad...so I always try to send him registered mail...addressed to him!

Day 15 - Aug 22
Grandpa Ham Huynh is loved by all of us...and gets teased a lot...don't know how many countless times he's had his shorts pulled by his kids and grandkids...hahaha

Day 16 - Aug 23
14 months ago Logan was born giving grandpa Ham Huynh his first great grandson...we were lucky they were able to spend a few times together!

Day 17 - Aug 24
Grampa Ham Huynh would have enjoyed laughing at all us who has been accepting the #‎icebucketchallenge. He's always out for having a good time and watching the kids do things that will make him hug his Buddha belly and laugh!

Day 18 - Aug 25
Grandpa Ham Huynh loved to eat...he was always leaving the house to go out to eat.

Day 19 - Aug 26
Because he was always going out...the family had to hook him up with a cell phone...a new toy for my gadget happy grandpa.

Day 20 - Aug 27
Grandpa Ham Huynh loved technology...can you imagine what he has seen over the 94 years of his life from rural China to textile industry Vietnam to developed country Canada? Anyways...a fond memory was grandpa being introduced to SKYPE...he got to see Logan play around while we weren't there with him! He loved it!

Day 21 - Aug 28
Grandpa Ham Huynh loves hockey! Who doesn't? Too bad Justin Huynh had him loving the Oilers...lol

Day 22 - Aug 29
Grampa Ham Huynh...he's so adorable...the happiness he gets from just getting a phone call from us is so cute. Makes you remember that the simplest things makes people more happy than you can guess!

Day 23 - Aug 30
Grandpa Ham Huynh loved to get dressed up...when he arrived in Vancouver for my Wedding Engagement Celebration he had to go shopping right away for his Chinese jacket! He loved that jacket!

Day 24 - Aug 31
Grandpa Ham loved to eat and he loved the fact that my mom was just like him about food.

Day 25 - Sep 1
Grampa Ham loved his children...the things he lets my aunts and uncles get away with are funny and would fill books, including pulling down his shorts during a photo op...hahaha

Day 26 - Sep 2
Grandpa Ham loved his grandchildren, and like his children, he lets us get away with a lot of stuff too. Vince H is notorious for pulling down his pants on camera too...or his own

Day 27 - Sep 3
The memories of Grandpa Ham is numerous, but many stick out...I still remember the surprise I got when we went to the food court and he ordered "Donair no onion"...who knew he can order in English...it shouldn't have surprised me since he's self educated in languages to talk to all of us kids and grandkids!

Day 28 - Sep 4
Grandpa Ham Huynh...loved it when we carry on with Chinese traditions but also told us to do away with practices that we have no understanding for...a balance of tradition and the embracing of the future...

Day 29 - Sep 5
Grandpa Ham Huynh...it still makes me giggle that no matter how old uncle Thanh Huynh is, grandpa Ham tells everyone he can't travel for too long or who would look after uncle Thanh...hehehe

Day 30 - Sep 6
Grandpa Ham Huynh probably loved gifts more than the kids do when it comes to birthdays and Christmas...as they say...always a kid at heart...he definitely got a kick out of gag gifts...hehehe

Day 31 - Sep 7
Grampa Ham Huynh's memory was amazing...you can ask him the bus schedule and he would be able to tell you without looking it up.

Day 32 - Sep 8
I think I always loved it when grandpa attempted swear...it reminds me of my attempt to swear...almost non-existent...lol

Day 33 - Sep 9
Grandpa Ham was always up early...one winter while I was visiting Edmonton, he actually woke me up and dragged me through the snow to the bus stop just to get me fed...he was strutting through the snow while I was trying really hard to keep up and not fall...hahaha...boy did I feel old, having trouble keeping up with my grandfather...hahaha

Day 34 - Sep 10
Grandpa Ham Huynh loved food...loves it so much he travels around the world for food...to Asia for papaya...hehehe

Day 35 - Sep 11
Grandpa Ham Huynh loved food so much, he makes my mom Tu Anh Huynh cook food in Vancouver and bring it to Edmonton for him...the last thing she brought him was deep fried lobster tail

Day 36 - Sep 12
As I am looking into booking myself on a cruise for a long awaited vacation...I remember photos of my grandfather Ham Huynh taking a swim off a boat in Asia...and of him eating freshly caught fish...always eating!

Day 37 - Sep 13
Grandpa Ham Huynh made the meanest marinate for meats...I wonder if he ever shared the secret that was passed on to him from grandma...uncle Thanh Huynh do you know?

Day 38 - Sep 14
While pigging out yester
Day with the Blings...I remembered that grandpa Ham Huynh loved ice cream cake

Day 39 - Sep 15
Grandpa Ham Huynh loved to travel, he travelled as often as possible...one of his last trips was to be with family...a trip south to visit Phuong Lu...a trip west to visit Sue Ann Selman

Day 40 - Sep 16
Grandpa Ham is probably as bad as Julia Climie with their carbon foot print with all the travelling around the world that they do.

Day 41 - Sep 17
Grandpa Ham Huynh enjoyed just being out and about...to the very end you would find him and the family daily out at the mall...

Day 42 - Sep 18
Grandpa Ham Huynh...would walk around the house with just his shorts in the summer...rubbing his tummy like Buddha

Day 43 - Sep 19
Grandpa Ham...also has the cutest toothless smile...correction, he has 2 teeth...one on either sides of his smile...lol

Day 44 - Sep 20
Grandpa Ham Huynh loved to fold plastic grocery bags to put it away...hahaha...the family OCD probably originated from him...lol...almost everyone in the family folds away plastic grocery bags...

Day 45 - Sep 21
As I was enjoying some tunes yester
Day I remembered how grandpa Ham Huynh loved to listen to music...Vietnamese music...Chinese music...and Whitney Houston...hehehe

Day 46 - Sep 22
Grandpa Ham Huynh loved to be photographed...I'm glad, because that meant we have lots of photos of him with all of us to remember him by! The last few years, he's loved being included in the cousin's (his grandchidren's) outtings and group photos...because he's always one of us kids!

Day 47 - Sep 23
Grandpa Ham Huynh...always trying and striving for more and better...I will follow his example to enjoy life to the fullest...and always eat what I crave...hehehe

Day 48 - Sep 24
It's quite interesting to remember all that Grandpa Ham Huynh has gone through in his 94 years...a teenager leaving the family/China and venturing south instead of across the pacific to be part of the industrial revolution in textiles...leaving Vietnam due to a war...coming to Canada...returning to China to find his mother and family...great grandmother managed to meet some of my aunts and uncles before she passed away over 100 years old (last of the foot bound ladies). The history of his life...the changes he has seen in the world...baffling

Day 49 - Sep 25

Grandpa Ham Huynh was a very social person. Loved to chat with everyone, especially those who can speak Chinese to him. It always brought a smile to his face when one of my Chinese speaking friends, like Tina Lee, came to Edmonton and paid him a visit!

Thursday, January 5, 2012

Then...Now...the Future

I said good bye to Julia tonight. It was another hard good bye! It was a big good bye! The next time I see my bestfriend, it will be just before my wedding this summer, shortly before her very own wedding.
24 November 2005 - Vancouver Canucks vs Chicago Blackhawks - GM Place Arena
This photos was taken in November 2005 at GM Place (now known as Roger's Arena). This was one of the first photos of Julia and I together. It was also our first hockey game together too!

Julia and I have caught the Vancouver Canucks play every year since that photo, traditionally on Boxing Day...
January 2012 - Vancouver Canucks vs San Jose Sharks - Roger's Arena
This photo is the latest photo of Julia and I taking in a Vancouver Canucks game together. It will be our last photo together at a hockey game as single women.

When this last photo was taken, it brought back soo many memories for me. SOO MANY MEMORIES!

Julia and I have been through a lot, together and apart! We can't even start to record everything that has occurred...and there's constantly more occuring every day we are bestfriends!

We worked together at Bell. We became friends together at Bell.

We worked together at PICH. We partied together during the PICH years.

We travelled and vacationed locally together, Pender Island being one of them.

We struggled to stay connected when Julia went to London, England for her Master's. That's when Facebook came into play for our friendship. The photos we loaded...I think it stopped once we both broke the 100 album marker...hehehe It helped when she kept coming back home for the holidays.

We struggled to stay connected when she remained in London to work. It really helped when she came home for the holidays.

I managed to visit her in London and we travelled to Spain together. We love Sangrias, Paellas and all the other Tapas selections.

I loved it when she moved back to Vancouver, but it hurt when she moved to Ottawa shortly after! Even though she was back in the same country, she was still miles and miles away. The visits during the holidays continued to help.

After family, she was the first person I called when Richard proposed to me...she already knew it was coming. Toby, her fiance msg'd me to give me a heads up that he was going to propose. After family, she called me when he proposed in the YOW airport!

With her fiance's help, we planned a great surprise visit where I dropped in on her in Ottawa!

As engaged women, we enjoyed wedding dress shopping and bridesmaid dress shopping and of course each other's company! It's always great to share everything with your bestfriend and I can't think of anything better than what we are going through now in our lives together at the same time. Engagement...Wedding...and our futures together with the man that we love!

Here's to memories of the past...memories we are making with each new day...and to our futures!

Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Surprise Visit


It all started with an email from Julia to get me started on a brilliant surprise...

October 19, 2011 at 3:55 PM PST -- Email from Julia.
"Was wonderful trying on gowns with mom here, since she won't be around to see anymore dresses. I hate that none of my family/bridesmaids is here for this."


I needed an accomplice...TOBY!
Many text messages and emails occurred between Toby and I...here are key ones to give you a good look at the planning and anticipation to the big surprise...




October 20, 2011 at 5:53 PM PST -- Text message from Sue Ann to Toby
"Was thinking about dropping in on Julia for a weekend...Surprise...Any bad weekend?"

October 20, 2011 at 6:05 PM PST --- Text message from Toby to Sue Ann
"Nov 12 and 19 are the only bad weekends between now and Xmas. Stay with us! I'll pick you up at the airport. I can make a dress appt at..."

October 20, 2011 at 6:06 PM PST -- Text message from Toby to Sue Ann
"A place I know she wants to go"

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November 2, 2011 at 9:05 AM PST -- Text message from Toby to Sue Ann
"I'll make a couple of dress appts for you 2. Sat or Sun?"

November 2, 2011 at 12:29 PM PST -- Text message from Sue Ann to Toby
"OMG Soooo excited"

November 2, 2011 at 12:30 PM PST -- Text message from Toby to Sue Ann
"Really I couldn't tell. Julia still has no idea."

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A hiccup arose during the planning stages leading up to the big surprise...

November 3, 2011 at 3:57 PM PST -- Text message from Toby to Sue Ann
"Julia is planning to go dress shopping on the 25th with somebody...she is also getting married"

November 3, 2011 at 3:59 PM PST -- Text message from Sue Ann to Toby
"Nooooo"

November 3, 2011 at 4:03 PM PST -- Text message from Toby to Sue Ann
"She is also coming for dinner"

November 3, 2011 at 4:04 PM PST -- Text message from Sue Ann to Toby
"Dude...come up with an excuse for her to cancel"
"Plan some fake thing for that day!"

November 3, 2011 at 4:08 PM PST -- Text message from Toby to Sue Ann
"Too late, she already made those plans. She'll know something is up"

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November 3, 2011 at 4:44 PM PST -- Text message from Toby to Sue Ann
"Hmmm...i do know the person Julia is going shopping with, I could ask her to cancel..."

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November 4, 2011 at 9:17 AM PST -- Text message from Toby to Sue Ann
"Problem solved: Julia's friend will cancel later in Nov"

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November 15, 2011 at 8:01 AM PST -- Email exert from Toby to Sue Ann

Only a week and a half to go!
I have made two dress appointments for Saturday November 26.

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November 16, 2011 at 3:14 PM PST -- Email exert from Sue Ann to Toby
"Did you want to catch a Senators' game?"

November 16, 2011 at 3:59 PM PST -- Email exert from Sue Ann to Toby
"do you want to grab tickets or shall I?"

November 16, 2011 at 4:00 PM PST -- Email exert from Toby to Sue Ann
"It might be easier for you to do it right now: you know who is in the kitchen and might see."


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November 20, 2011 at 11:02 AM PST - Email exert from Toby to Sue Ann
"Julia seems sufficiently depressed about next weekend.  Her DND friend cancelled and she is dreading shopping alone."

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November 21, 2011 at 6:21 AM PST - Email exert from Toby to Sue Ann
"I made us a reservation for brunch on Sunday at 1pm at the NAC."

November 21, 2011 at 9:35 AM PST -- Email exert from Sue Ann to Toby

"OMG! I am soooo excited!3 more days to go!"

November 21, 2011 at 10:29 AM PST -- Email exert from Toby to Sue Ann
"I'm excited too, and I'm sure Julia would be if she knew you were coming. "

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November 22, 2011 at 12:36 PM PST -- Email exert from Toby to Sue Ann
"48 hours I can hardly wait: i might explode soon."

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November 23, 2011 emails between Toby and Sue Ann were under the subject "Tomorrow"


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November 24, 2011 emails between Toby and Sue Ann were under the subject "Soon"


I landed early in Ottawa on November 24, 2011 at 2:14 PM EST. Toby picked me up me up at 3:16 PM PST.


Toby and I were going crazy waiting for Julia to get off work...she was working late again!


When Julia finally emailed Toby that she's on the bus home...we headed to the bus stop.
Watching bus after bus come and go without Julia on it was driving me mental....


Shortly after 6:09 PM EST Julia's bus finally arrived...I stood across the way...as I saw her cross the road...I shouted to her something along the line of "Hurry up Julia! I'm hungry!" She stopped halfway and froze. Even in the dark I can see her eye widen and jaw drop! She crossed and came towards me. Tears were in her eyes! HUG!!!! She can't believe I was there in person after just texting back and forth with me during her bus ride...

Surprise was a success!

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November 25, 2011 at 7:29 AM EST -- Email exert from Julia to Sue Ann
Subject: Is it real???
"Are you really here? I feel like it all could have been a wonderful wonderful dream last night :D"

For my birthday, I was in Ottawa with my bestfriend Julia and her fiance Toby! Surprise!
For the 5 days I was in Ottawa, we went wedding dress shopping...eating (of course)...shopping...eating (more)...more wedding dress shopping...eating (again)...we even managed to catch an Ottawa Senator's hockey game together...eating (tons)!


It was an awesome treat for me to visit...it was an awesome surprise to Julia...

How will Toby and I top this in the future???? Ugh!!!